The Beauty of the Older Dude
What makes an older dude hot? The beauty of certain older men
The making of an older dude does not just mean age. A person can be old yet that same person could have had a very quiet life living for him self and may be his work or hobby along with dispassion to other things besides work. Such dude would not be considered a hot dude unless he had a job that took his time 24 hrs a day and at the same time it made him professionally mingle into other lives. An example of such a dude would be a detective solving serious crimes like murder or a medical doctor or international newsman. Those people don’t need a live of their own because they get to know so many others. Unlike a dude that works at a bank, Insurance adjustor or taxi driver those dudes lingo with other lives but in a very superficial way.
Their interaction with other humans is limited and very shallow. Unless they decide to make a contribution by having their time after work getting to know other people, be in a part time teaching position, paramedic or volunteer in a position that makes him get involved and get to know the people they touch. Those are almost hot older dudes if before they intervened or simply just watch the behavior of other they first took mirror and a scale understanding that we live in different times from our fathers and most utilize the medium of instant information to make ourselves physically approachable by others. A hot older dude is that guy that saw his body as a vehicle to meet others. Those hot older dudes if they have a beard is trim and no antenaes precluding from their noses to be seen first before anybody has a chance to make eye contact. This hot older dude will smell right, not like people smelled in his youth but how the youth smells now. The reason for this is to be recognized by the younger ones as a savvy hot timer never as an old timer. Someone who knows, some one that can be a hot older dude.
This hot older dude carries the past on one shoulder and the present in the other. They both meet without having to have needle and thread or any foreign object to sew them together; Instead they melt by the understanding of how things have changed.This dude knows the past and knows how it molds the present while at the same time understands what is happening today because that will be the future while he lays down with his last breath of air.
The hot older dude never speaks of himself and seldom says “I” unless specifically asked about his experiences. Never raises his voice while making his point but firmly puts his foot down at the presence of ignorance which someone expects him to swallow. Yes he swallows but only what makes him either healthy or satisfies his thirst for the flavor of this world.
This hot dude is never afraid of aging because he will not change inside. He understand that he would be as sexy now as a decade from now because he will follow his route which is to have his body secured and then understand the others that surround him. When this hot old dude can not find fresh experience with the smell of peppermint and lime is time to move on to another part of town or another part of the world because the world is big and everything is in it, you just have to look.
He knows he has the power to change peoples perception of things. He carries the truth because he has paid attention to the world as it ages and then gets younger again. He understand why the beautiful rose plant has needles that hurts the inexperience hand.
He understand why the night brings out such beauty while at the same time it brings heart ache and the color red spills down the highway and brings agony to some. This hot dude would make the younger get experienced and the contemporary acquire a vision.
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