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September 15, 2018

88 Years Old Becomes Britain's Older Stalker After Falling For Younger Woman While Bonding Over the Bible



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 A devout churchgoer aged 88 has become Britain's oldest stalker after he became infatuated with a younger woman he met through their shared interest in the Bible.
Widower Frank Chadwick had hoped for companionship with Sheila Thompson, 54, after the death of his wife just before their 50th wedding anniversary.
But after the pair had a cup of tea together, Chadwick - who is partially deaf - began hounding accountant Miss Thompson over a period of two years.
He asked if could volunteer at a community centre where she worked, but concerns were raised when he began following her to church on a Sunday.



When the pensioner was asked to leave the community centre after he admitted the only reason he went was to see Miss Thompson, he began hand-delivering cards, letters and gifts to her home in Salford, Greater Manchester.
He was eventually reported to police after being seen repeatedly lurking around her cul-de-sac - forcing Miss Thompson to hide behind the curtains to avoid him.
In a statement Miss Thompson said: "Due to his behaviour I am still keeping the blinds shut in my living room as he could still see me if I sat in my chair.
"When I approach my house, I check I have my keys ready and check he is not lurking in the area. I avoid answering the phone or door unless I know who it is. I have to consider what he may do before I do things myself."


Widower Frank Chadwick (pictured) had hoped for companionship with Sheila Thompson, 54, after the death of his wife just before their 50th wedding anniversary
Widower Frank Chadwick (pictured) had hoped for companionship with Sheila Thompson, 54, after the death of his wife just before their 50th wedding anniversary CREDIT: RICKY CHAMPAGNE/CAVENDISH PRESS
At Manchester Magistrates' Court, Chadwick of Westhoughton, Bolton, admitted a charge of stalking without fear, alarm or distress and was banned from contacting Miss Thompson for 18 months under the terms of a restraining order.
He was also conditionally discharged for 18 months.
The incidents began in 2016 after Chadwick met Miss Thompson after they bumped into other whilst they were out walking in the Salford area.
At the time he had a Bible in his hand after being asked to research a question posed by his vicar and she offered to help.
Prosecutor Lynn Rogers said: "The two met by complete chance. She was out walking in February 2016, when she saw him and they started to chat, and they had a cup of tea together and arranged to meet for lunch.
"She took him to a local centre where she works as a volunteer. He asked if he could also volunteer but was told it would not be appropriate.
"He followed her to her place of worship, and would send her hand-written letters, and hand-deliver them through her front door.
"At the centre, he was spoken to by staff and asked him if the reason he wanted to volunteer for them was because he wanted to be close to her and he said 'yes'. He was told not to attend the centre any more.
"He was reported in 2016 and March 2017, as she saw him walking down her cul-de-sac. He went up to her house and he knocked on the door and rang the bell to try to contact her. She remained in her house and the curtains were drawn in the front.
"She said he was seen by a neighbour and he was loitering around the area, and posted letters and a book through her door."
Chadwick later attended a police station on August 21, 2018 where he was arrested. In mitigation defence lawyer Mr Adam Whittaker said: "He had impeccable character and it is unfortunate we have to be in this situation today.
"He just didn't understand what has happened. He does have difficulties with hearing, and he communicates by letters.
"He lost his wife on Christmas Day a few years ago, just as they were approaching their 50th wedding anniversary and she was his life companion.
"His family have grown up and he finds great comfort in the church. On the first meeting with her he had his Bible, and he was working on a question from his minister.
"She approached him and spoke to him first. After they swapped numbers, she contacted him after that and they met for lunch. They went to each other's place of workship.
"He felt there was more to this friendship than there actually was. He wanted to see her.
"She told him to then not contact her for three months and he thought maybe that would salvage their friendship. He didn't know why or what he did wrong. He just sought after companionship.
"This has gone on for a period of around two years. He has a good character and entered an early guilty plea.
"He has no previous convictions. Probation do not need to be involved with a man of 88 years of age."
District judge Khalid Qureshi dismissed the need for punishment, and said: "There was no malice involved and there was no threat, it was just the persistence of the matter, and the letter is very well written - you pleaded guilty at the first instance.
"I will make this a conditional discharge for 18 months. In terms of the restraining order, you must not go to her address or contact her in anyway way whatsoever. The restraining order will be in place for 18 months."
In 2016 retired bookie Andrew Trimble, 81, of Garrowhill, Glasgow was placed under supervision for stalking May Fernie, 79. in the same year former sailor Colin Bagot-Hodgson, 78, of Blackburn, Lancs, was given a suspended sentence after harassing a 73-year old woman suffering from cancer with letters, cards, magazines and gifts.

July 30, 2017

Trump Wants $$ for His Wall, Military- What Would Help? Ending Affordable Care for the Poor and Elderly



Trump Wants Money for His Wall, Military, Etc. What Would Help? Ending Affordable Care for the Poor and Elderly





 
President Donald Trump hinted that he may end a key Affordable Care Act subsidy that makes insurance accessible to poorer Americans, a move that may critically destabilize health-insurance exchanges.

The administration has previously floated the idea to halt subsidies that help insurers offset health-care costs for low-income Americans, called a cost-sharing reduction, or CSR. In a tweet on Saturday, Trump hinted at ending that program.

“If a new HealthCare Bill is not approved quickly, BAILOUTS for Insurance Companies and BAILOUTS for Members of Congress will end very soon!” the president said in a tweet on Saturday.
It was unclear if Trump’s message means he also plans to directly target subsidies that are available to health insurance policies for some Congressional staff members. The White House declined to comment further on Trump’s tweet.






A months-long effort by Senate Republicans to pass health-care legislation collapsed early Friday after Republican John McCain of Arizona joined two of his colleagues to block a stripped-down Obamacare repeal bill. McCain’s “no” vote came after weeks of brinkmanship and after his dramatic return from cancer treatment to cast the 50th vote to start the debate on the bill earlier in the week. The “skinny” repeal bill was defeated 49-51, falling just short of the 50 votes needed to advance it. Republicans Susan Collins of Maine and Lisa Murkowski of Alaska also voted against it.
For more on the efforts to repeal the ACA, click here.

Ending the CSR subsidies, paid monthly to insurers, is one way that Trump could hasten Obamacare’s demise without legislation, by prompting more companies to raise premiums in the individual market or stop offering coverage. The administration last made a payment about a week ago for the previous 30 days but hasn’t made a long-term commitment.

Responding on Twitter, Andrew Slavitt, acting administrator of the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services in the Obama administration, said the impact of cutting off subsidy payments “will be felt by the middle class who will pay more to subsidize low income.”

The next payments are due Aug. 21. On Friday, health-care analyst Spencer Perlman at Veda Partners LLC said in a research note that there’s a 30 percent chance Trump will end CSR payments, which may “immediately destabilize the exchanges, perhaps fatally.”

America’s Health Insurance Plans, a lobby group for the industry, has estimated that premiums would rise by about 20 percent if the CSR payments aren’t made. Many insurers have already dropped out of Obamacare markets in the face of mounting losses and blamed the uncertainty over the future of the cost-sharing subsidies and the individual mandate as one of the reasons behind this year’s premium increases.

Moments after the Senate voted down the Republican bill on Friday morning, Majority Leader Mitch McConnell called on Democrats to offer their ideas for moving forward with health care. But he warned, “Bailing out insurance companies, with no thought of any kind of reform, is not something I want to be a part of.”A survey in April by the nonpartisan Kaiser Family Foundation showed that 61 percent Americans believe Trump and Republicans are responsible for future problems with the ACA, while 31 percent said President Barack Obama and Democrats would be at fault.

April 8, 2016

The Older HIV Population Might be Smaller with Suppressed Virus than thought



                                                                        
> 1 Million are living with HIV in the US, 1 in 8 Living with HIV are Unaware of their infection






 Suppressed = Undetectable virus and under           control with less chances of transmitting.  In the U.S. the core of the transmission is happening through younger carriers, many who refused go get tested in a regular basis or at all.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s (CDC) may have overestimated the size of the U.S. HIV population while greatly underestimating the proportion that has a fully suppressed viral load. Publishing their findings in the Journal of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndromes, researchers used HIV laboratory reporting to estimate HIV prevalence in New York City and 19 other jurisdictions and then used previously published data to construct a revised HIV treatment cascade.

The treatment cascade, also known as the HIV care continuum, refers to the descending proportion of people living with HIV who have been diagnosed, are retained in medical care, have been prescribed antiretrovirals (ARVs) and are virally suppressed.

The CDC has estimated that 1.2 million Americans were living with HIV in 2011. The U.S. care continuum estimate, which also refers to 2011, has long stated that 86 percent of the American HIV population has been diagnosed, 40 percent is engaged in care, 37 percent has been prescribed ARVs and 30 percent is virally suppressed. These figures are frequently cited as troublesome barometers of the dismal job the U.S. health care system is doing taking care of HIV-positive individuals.

Recent research has suggested that viral suppression rates have been steadily
increasing among Americans living with the virus.

The researchers in this new study estimated that, in fact, the CDC’s HIV prevalence estimate for 2011 was 25.6 percent too high, that the true number of Americans living with the virus was 819,200, or somewhere between 809,800 and 828,800. Their revised care continuum, also concerning 2011 figures, estimates that 86 percent of the HIV population has been diagnosed, 72 percent is retained in care, 68 percent is on ARVs and 55 percent is virally suppressed.

To read the study abstract, click here.

April 11, 2015

Rational Suicide Talk on Healthy Elderly


                                                                      
The incidence of healthy elderly patients raising the issue of "rational suicide" is on the rise, and clinicians need to be prepared to address it.
Dr Robert McCue
Here at the American Association for Geriatric Psychiatry (AAGP) 2015 Annual Meeting, a session dedicated to the issue aimed to provide guidance to clinicians who may be faced with elderly patients expressing a desire to die by suicide while they are still relatively healthy and cognitively intact.
The concept of suicide based on reasoned decision has been gaining acceptance, particularly in terminally ill patients. But what about older people who are concerned about their failing bodies and feel that their life is already complete?
"The possibility of rational suicide is not discussed much in the psychiatric profession. Our patients may have information about it and may have opinions, but we have no training about this at all," session moderator Robert McCue, MD, clinical associate professor of psychiatry at New York University (NYU) School of Medicine, in New York City, told conference delegates.
Dr Meera Balasubramaniam
"I don't think we talk about it because it's not clear how we fit it in within our modern practice of medicine," added Dr McCue.
Following the session, Meera Balasubramaniam, MD, MPH, clinical assistant professor at NYU, told Medscape Medical News that the session was not about whether physicians should or should not be involved with assisted suicide.
"Our main focus was on the fact that more and more individuals are expressing the wish to end their lives when they're doing well, and we're often called upon to see these patients," Dr Balasubramaniam.
"So what should be the process for interacting with them, and what's the right intervention?"
Enough Is Enough
The session opened with presentations of cases of elderly individuals who went on to commit suicide. The first presentation included clips from a televised video interview of a smiling 83- year-old woman who said she was not depressed but had had many operations during the past 10 years, "and that's enough, I think."
She added that she was going to be taking barbiturates and had made several specific plans, including a decision as to who would take her dog. "I think my friends will understand. People should have the right to go with dignity," she said on camera.
The second case involved an 87-year-old man who had had two strokes, and his vision was deteriorating rapidly. He jumped out a window after leaving behind an organized note and after having made detailed arrangements for the distribution of his money. 
The third case involved a frail woman who petitioned Dignitas, a not-for-profit assisted suicide organization in Switzerland.
"All three of these cases could be construed as rational acts," said Dr McCue. "They weren't impulsive, and in the first and third cases, they spoke to the media ahead of time and had a lot of discussion with friends and family first."
He noted that the term "rational suicide" was first used in an article by David J. Mayo, PhD, that was published in the Journal of Medicine and Philosophy in 1986. Since then, the concept has been written about frequently.
Dr McCue said that the term is usually used with regard to a person with free choice, sound decision-making skills, and what they consider an unremitting, "hopeless" physical condition.
He reported that in Switzerland, euthanasia is illegal, but assisted suicide is legal, including assisted suicide by nonphysicians, "if there is no selfish motive." Thus, Dignitas' not-for- profit status.
In other countries, such as the Netherlands and Belgium, euthanasia is legal. Although not yet a law, a 2010 call for allowing all Dutch people older than 70 years "who feel tired of life" to have the right to professional assistance in ending it is currently in legislation.
In the United States, euthanasia is illegal, but assisted suicide is legal in Vermont, Washington, and Oregon.
Although approximately 90% of individuals who die by suicide have a clinically diagnosed psychiatric disorder, "no study has found that 100% of suicides have a psychiatric illness. And I've not been trained about non–psychiatrically ill suicides," said Dr McCue.
"This puts a burden on us and makes us wonder how we're going to treat someone who may not have an illness. How do you approach someone like that?"
Dying on Their Own Terms
In her talk, Dr Balasubramaniam presented cases of two elderly patients, an 88-year-old man and a 93-year-old woman, with no signs of mental illness who came to her practice and mentioned wanting to die on their own terms.
"I've had three near falls this month. How should it make a difference to anyone if I go at 93 or at 95?" the woman is reported to have said. The man noted that he would rather "die a year early than too late."
"What should we do during our diagnostic considerations?" asked Dr Balasubramaniam. "Is suicidal ideation a marker of underlying mental illness? Is it reflective of aging or physical illness? Or is it a rational, reasonable response to the situation at hand? And is it justified to jump to psychiatric hospitalization ― what would be the goals of treatment?"
She also wondered how clinicians should integrate their own feelings into treatment. Regarding the two patients she presented, after several discussions, neither patient ended up being hospitalized or following through with suicide.
“But overall, there are so many questions and things we all need to think about.” 
Elissa Kolva, PhD, from the Colorado Blood Cancer Institute, in Denver, noted that lessons can be culled from research into psycho-oncology and palliative-care psychology, including the following guiding principles:
  • Conduct a thorough assessment;
  • Determine whether suicidal ideation is independent of a psychiatric diagnosis;
  • Realize that "rational doesn't mean untreatable";
  • Explore the motivation for the expressed ideation; and
  • Identify areas for interdisciplinary intervention.
Dr Kolva noted that having a bad social support system or worrying about being a burden to loved ones is often cited as a reason for suicidal ideation.
Possible interventions could include meaning-centered psychotherapy, dignity therapy (which stresses improving quality of life and connection to family), social work for increased resources, or even spiritual options.
Guidelines Needed
Although the symposium was the last presentation on the last day of the meeting, it was full of audience members eager to ask questions and share their own experiences during the question and answer session.
The first conference delegate asked that this be the first session next year and noted that he has had case after case of patients refusing treatment "because they want to be done." He added that it is important to help them to get to a place where that is a rational and ethical decision.
However, the next commenter disagreed vehemently, stating that "suicide is almost always wrong. When it's your time, you'll go. Otherwise, it complicates things too much for doctors."
Dr McCue noted that the session was not about taking a stand or defending one position over another.
"But people really should begin thinking about all this. And through that, hopefully there will be some evolved guidance for mental health professionals who deal with older people who talk about wanting to end their lives when they see fit to do it. Whether or not an organization says there's no such thing as rational suicide, our patients often feel differently," he said.
"Right now we really don't have much guidance in the field, but I'd say, let's open up discussion, including discourse and varying opinions. And maybe out of that, there will be some consensus on how to approach patients like this."
Dr McCue, Dr Balasubramaniam, and Dr Kolva report no relevant financial relationships.
American Association for Geriatric Psychiatry (AAGP) 2015 Annual Meeting. Session 409. 3/2015

April 29, 2013

Someone Asking Your 82 Y.O. Grand Ma } How Do You Feel About Gay Sex?


Quick poll: How many of you would completely freak if your sweet, little grandmother told you, "I know when I was young, I was chasing all the little dykes around"? Yeah, that's what we thought. Except, that's the response one videographer got when he took it upon himself to head to the L.A. Gay and Lesbian Center to ask its residents the age-old question: What do you think about gay sex?

Needless to say, the results were pretty surprising if you're convinced that old people are the progressive youth army's worst enemy (not). One man can't seem to tell the difference between sex and yoga, but perhaps there isn't much of a difference in positions after all, when it boils down to it. Other enthusiastic responses include, "Whatever floats your boat," "It's fantastic," and "My favorite part was the 'come, come, come, come, come!'"

Though mainly humorous, what's enlightening about this video is that it once-and-for-all dispels the notion that homosexuality is some kind of trendy new fad that happened because of Will & Grace. It's been around forever, folks. (dlisted)

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