It's thought that around six percent of people are gay. But knowing whether you are or not isn't always simple to work out. If you are feeling sexually confused, help is at hand...
Sexuality isn't a matter of gathering evidence, it's about how you feel
Hello. I'm confused...
Don't get what all the fuss is about boys? Kissed a male mate just to see what it's like? Do you have a crush on someone the same sex as you? All these are signs that you could be gay. Or you could be 100% straight. Or somewhere in between.
Sexuality for some people is not clear cut - it's a spectrum. And wherever you sit on that spectrum is completely fine.
Figuring out your sexuality isn't a matter of gathering evidence, it's about how you feel. It's normal to be sexually attracted to the same sex sometimes - it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay.
But if you've felt this way very strongly for a long time, you could be bisexual or gay. Some people know from an early age, while others need to explore and experiment to understand more about how they feel.
What's in a name?
Sexual orientation (or sexuality) is about who you have sexual feelings towards.
- Heterosexuals (people who are straight) are people who only fancy members of the opposite sex.
- Homosexuals (people who are gay) only fancy members of the same sex. Girls who fancy other girls can also be called lesbians.
- Bisexuals are attracted to both sexes.
- Asexuals experience attraction, but do not experience sexual attraction or sexual desire.
- Now you have new NAMES WHICH HAVE PEOPLE CONFUSED and who can blame them? The reason for that is because we know more through scientific studies. One thing should be clear: just because a man has sex with a man does not make him a gay or homosexual. As human being we like to experiment. Gay as other names or labels are there to not confuse you even though many times it does the opposite. It also does not make that man or two girls bi sexual. If they have been attracted to the opposite sex and one day camping when there was an opportunity and desire t o see how it feels either as passive or active the. these to come back and they go to their normal sexual livesmthen that was it. However if something was awaken and now prefer both sexes then he was bisexua,just never had the chance to experiment and see. The test is NOT that you liked it. Hopefully you did, but where you id or not is how you feel afterwords and I don't mean thinking about the experience and masturbating, one can use any figure to masturbate since its all in this. particular side of the brain and not real and you will not make it real. So masturbating dos not make XYZ. Its what actually you do and want to keep on doing.The guys that were camping in the woods if one of them goes back to his old life he is what he was. However if after that he decides that he want to have sex with his partner friend and not have heterosexual sex anymore because he want to be faithful and he feel so much gratified with a homosexual experience the he was gay and it was possible that if he can remember his experience when he was in the Boy Scouts, he remembers how excited he got when you were alll taking showers together. I know that was my case and I think I can g to around 9 the I felt something.
- We will keep learning on the subject of sex because humans can be very cOmplicated.The rule is was long as there is consent on someone old enough to give legal consent and both are in agreement , anything goes as both agree. Yes everything goes because we do not need the government to protect us or our self lives , you know that ha cost many their lives. When you get the government involved you get the church is right behind it on the ob ass.
- There is one new term that most people don't know much about because it goes against what we have been taught. That term is polyamory, To make the definition short it means and simple it means having sex with everyone you like regardless of sexual gender but they all have to. be in agreement, that way is not cheating.
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However, as a teenager, your sexual feelings can be very intense and it's completely natural for your attention to jump between different people - and different genders - quite frequently.
This can be confusing. It can also be exciting. Enjoy and explore at your own pace. Sexuality doesn't develop overnight, so don't be in too much of a hurry to put a label on yours.
You're not alone
With six percent of the population defining themselves as gay you really aren't on your own, and it's likely that some of your friends are curious about the same things you are.
Is there such a thing as a 'gay voice'? David Thorpe directed the film Do I Sound Gay? and here he speaks about his experiences.
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