Tony Perking Parts Bread with Jennifer Chrisler. the Bread was Moldy

• So many of us have had feelings of abandonment. Be from our families or ex friends.  But for sure we feel so 
• that way about our government and even the media that keeps us inform.  We watch how people are treated with respect while we are ask very personals questions with insolent tones.We see how convicts get married and we can’t.
• We also tend to love-hate ourselves. We say we love ourselves but we do things that are au contraire to that.
• From cigarette smoking to drugs (not talking pot). To forgiving those that either don’t deserve it because they haven’t ask for it because they are still working against us.  The reason that people, manly religious and political figures  don’t like us  is because of their own personal reasons of which we have nothing to do or say.
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• We find so called representatives of the community wether they look for the position or it was put on their labs and they had to just carry the torch wanting so bad, to be on the paper, to be invited here and there. We have others that don’t understand why they are no liked and get no recognition at all.
• I will mention a name that was on the news because an invitation she sent to the devil’s den, that is Tony Perkins from the family research council…don’t let it confuse you that I’ll be talking about the heads of these two councils. One is called Family Equality Council and the other is called Family Research Council. 
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• The invitation to have Perkins(let’s Called it council #1so as to not get too confused) come and share bread with (council no. 2), this invite came from Jennifer Chrisler, the executive director of a gay rights group called Family Equality Council. Why she invited this man for dinner is something she will have to explain. I was not there but I’m as educated on what went on as anybody else that was there. What she wanted to accomplish, I don’t know.  Did she accomplish anything, yes she drop the ball and Perkins picked it up.  Perkins is going to be the same homophobe that he was prior to the meeting than after the meeting. The garbage that salivates out of his mouth keeps him in business.  Imagine if there were no gays at all what his job would be? Going after Mexicans because they eat enchiladas and chimichangas and not steak and potatoes? I don’t know. But this I know, nothing positive was accomplished nor could have been accomplish.  The ingredients were not there.  What was there was the media reporting it. Then Why did it take place?
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• I spoked to you about gays saying they love themselves but doing au contraire. I also mentioned the need to be accepted. Well I am afraid that those two powers were in force when this meeting was conceived and when it took place. There was a look for acceptance, but acceptance usually works both ways.  Acceptance is a way of compromise. You fellow you stay over there and I know you are over there and I will stay over here and You’ll know Im over here. Acceptance, compromise.  Did we get that ? No, because that is not Perkins purpose in this life. It is not to get along with us or compromise with us.  It is to attack us until hell has cool off. You know is not going to happen, if there is such a thing, it is not going to cool off.  The second power we have at play is hating ourselves.  Doing things that hurt us.   This meeting will only bring hurt to Jennifer and to us.  Because there was nothing to be gain by anybody, except Perkins now he can not be cornered like he has many times about how does he knows this about gays or that.  The media has been asking him why he said we can't be good parents and such since he has not seen gay parents.  He can say I split bread with them . I know them and they are despicable and should repent and go to therapy. He is got that ball on his court now.  To be fair he did say some gay families might make good parents, but that doesn’t matter because it is for the good of the nation and the world that they don’t be parents. No way to win with someone who’s job is to talk bad about us and nothing else!. This is something I see all the time. Dropping our sword that has gotten us here. It has by us being loud mouth, persistent and catch no prisoners that is how!  When the many groups of gays decided to compromise with the new governor of NY,  Mr Cuomo we knew that he had given a promise and we believe him because he was believable. We did the right thing and were rewarded by having Equal Marriage legal at the Empire State. That is when you go ready to compromise, when you have a partner that id as fair as us;  But your sword, which is your tongue, mind, eyes ears, and your will to fight if you have to ...you don’t drop. EVER!
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• I hope that we don't come to the understanding that by not fighting we are going to win. We have straight friends  that are putting a lot and for us on the line, we should not put them in a position that they are the ones with the sword meanwhile we dropped ours and are at the fence drinking latte trying to make friends.  Need a friend, get a dog or have a kid.  Jeniffer Chrisler has at least one of those if not both.
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• Let’s not walk backwards.  Even on the states that governors and legislators have sign gay marriage and gay protections there are already petitions to put that stuff in the ballot like they did in prop 8 in california and reverse it.
• What happened in california? You know what goddamed happened. Lets make friends that understand us or have the propensity to understand us. Not the ones that either get paid to opposed us or the ones that pay others to oppose us. Lets be smart.  What happened in that meeting was anything but smart.

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Tony Perkins, head of  the designated anti-LGBT hate group the Family Research Council, has taken up a lesbian equality leader’s invitation to dine with her family.

Reports CNN:

Tony Perkins, who heads the Family Research Council in Washington, received the invitation after telling CNN’s Brooke Baldwin on Thursday that he’d never been to the home of a married same-sex couple.

“My wife and I will be glad to respond when we receive the invitation to find a time that works,” Perkins said in a statement to CNN on Monday, referring to the invitation.

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The invitation to Perkins came from Jennifer Chrisler, the executive director of a gay rights group called Family Equality Council. Chrisler and her wife have twin 10-year-old boys, with another child on the way.

Perkins’ group has been a leading force in anti-marriage equality actions in Washington and around the United States. His group has also vociferously protested the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” claiming that the repeal would sexualize the military and lead to religious soldiers being persecuted for their beliefs.

Extracts from the text of Chrisler’s letter to Tony Perkins appear below:

I watched with interest your appearance on CNN Thursday and I was struck by your steadfast opposition to full equality for the 1 million lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender parents who are raising 2 million children in our country today. It is especially concerning given your lack of meaningful and personal interaction with those families.

I, like you, am a parent. Like you, my spouse and I have shared many years together committed to our family, our community, and to making the world a better place. I imagine we share many of the same joys and struggles in doing the important work of raising our children and contributing meaningfully to our community. We attend church regularly and our children attend Sunday school weekly. We love our children intensely and feel a deep desire to protect and nurture them as they continue along their journey to adulthood. We are also anxiously awaiting the arrival of our third child, due in August, and have worked since his conception to ensure his health and welfare. This is the face of the one million families you have taken no time to get to know.

I think if you could spend meaningful time with any of us, you would find we share many of the same values that you have worked to teach your own children. So it is with that in mind that I come to you with this sincere offer. I would like to extend an open invitation for you and your family to visit my home and have dinner with my spouse and children with the full hope that you will witness the love that exists in our families. While I recognize it may not change your mind, I hope that it might soften your heart.

As Christians, I think we can both agree that ours is not to judge and that we must live by the golden rule. I open my table to you and invite you to get to know me and my family.

LGBT commentators have become increasingly frustrated with the mainstream media’s insistence on treating Tony Perkins as a counter to pro-LGBT rights stances as though his narrow, religious inspired views, which have been called biased by the Southern Poverty Law Centre, are equivalent to evidence-based equality arguments.