Tip #6 out of 7 on Dating: Discovering Your Sexual Compatibility Labels Aren't Everything
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Discovering Your Sexual Compatibility
by Ramon Johnson
Top, bottom, or versatile? Such a crass question these days. Besides, it’s much more fun discovering your sexual compatibility rather than making a determination based on three labels. Why let a position preference cool off what could be a blazing bedroom adventure? Here are three steps to discovering your sexual chemistry:
Excavate Your Inner Desires
Pleasure in pairs is best when each partner knows what suits them best solo. Spend time getting to know your own desires. Don't be bashful. Dig deep. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom, or the sofa, or the kitchen table, or the bathroom sink, or the hallway floor…
Go on a Sexual Mission With Your Partner
Now that you're no longer lost on the solo path to pleasure, go on a sensual mission with your partner. The purpose of this excursion is for you and your man to explore each other. Keep in mind: This is an interactive mission. Take turns talking about what you like, then demonstrate or guide each other on how to get it done.
Dig For New Sexual Finds (Together)
The next step in your adult game of show and tell is to challenge each other to a new game of hide and seek. Take turns finding ways to pleasure each other that neither of you have previously thought of. Push your sexual limits. Create a "safety" word or phrase that lets your partner know when he's going too far. "Not there," "I don't like that," or "Oh no" all work well. At last, take a deep breath, count to three, and enjoy the process of achieving infinite levels of intimacy.
by Ramon Johnson
Top, bottom, or versatile? Such a crass question these days. Besides, it’s much more fun discovering your sexual compatibility rather than making a determination based on three labels. Why let a position preference cool off what could be a blazing bedroom adventure? Here are three steps to discovering your sexual chemistry:
Excavate Your Inner Desires
Pleasure in pairs is best when each partner knows what suits them best solo. Spend time getting to know your own desires. Don't be bashful. Dig deep. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom, or the sofa, or the kitchen table, or the bathroom sink, or the hallway floor…
Go on a Sexual Mission With Your Partner
Now that you're no longer lost on the solo path to pleasure, go on a sensual mission with your partner. The purpose of this excursion is for you and your man to explore each other. Keep in mind: This is an interactive mission. Take turns talking about what you like, then demonstrate or guide each other on how to get it done.
Dig For New Sexual Finds (Together)
The next step in your adult game of show and tell is to challenge each other to a new game of hide and seek. Take turns finding ways to pleasure each other that neither of you have previously thought of. Push your sexual limits. Create a "safety" word or phrase that lets your partner know when he's going too far. "Not there," "I don't like that," or "Oh no" all work well. At last, take a deep breath, count to three, and enjoy the process of achieving infinite levels of intimacy.
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