| Death is often an uncomfortable topic. But J.S. Park, a hospital interfaith chaplain, says talking about it can help us prepare for the reality that it could happen to any of us at any time. Park, author of As Long As You Need: Permission to Grieve, talks to Life Kit about what dying looks like and what Hollywood gets wrong about a patient's final moments. 💛 When you visit a loved one who has been hospitalized, you might see physical deterioration, even if they've only been there for a short amount of time. They may not be able to maintain their normal hygiene or exercise routine. 💛 Park says it is rare for a person to know they are having a last conversation with someone. He advises families that, as a person is dying, you should tell them everything you always wanted them to know. 💛 Try not to burden someone who is hurting with something we think they're going to need or by asking so many questions. For example, offer to bring over dinner rather than telling them to let you know if they need anything. |
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