It is silly to Rush to Get Marry~And If Gay Marriage Goes What Happens to Married Folks?
Background of Writer
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This analysis on the Same Sex Marriage issue coming through the courts is by Adam Gonzalez. Adam is a writer, Publisher and his background includes a total of 5 Years of Divinity post Graduate Classroom Studies. 3 yrs +2yrs Post (to become a Rev or Teacher). No intentions, Adam just wanted to find out about what people talk so much and know so little.
Adam entered in the Arca Evangelica Bible Institute as a young teen at the age of 13 going into 14. He remained in regular school, Junior High and High School. He went to the seminary at night and weekends. He worked as an assistant at the Institute to pay for his studies. At the end of High School was also his graduation in Brooklyn New York ( President, Bishop Rev. Sepulveda).
He has taken Psychology courses the last one was from Yale University, Connecticut.This is only a partial listing of his education. He has been Jr. assistant Buyer for Dept Store in Fine Jewelry and Diamonds, to Store manager for various chains of jewelry store.
He has been a diamond Consultant and spent 2 yrs working as a Test Center Administrator in Manhattan, NYC. There is more including volunteering at first then hired as paid staff member.
Have work with users and at the time AIDS folks living at home.
This was for non profits in New York City. He took care with other counselors to kids that were born with a mental disabilities, Mother who were users and alcoholics many became HIV and had babies with all types of different disabilities. Actually that was Adam's last work with the disabled after 1.5 yrs. He felt he needed to quit because he was overwhelmed by the amount of kids he was watching and taking out on trips. He said he was always scare he was going to loose a kid. Grateful for the opportunity to learn so much working for these kids. "One's heart had to be moved when they develop trust and openly talked to you"He usually taught them nutrition and help with computers.
After, about 18 years ago he started writing, something he wanted to do but never had the time and frame of mind to sit to write. When he was no longer doing work for pay, He found it therapeutic and and saw a need for the LGBTQ to get informed with not just "Gay" events or stories but everything from politics to International events.
He became well informed in ALL the issues affecting his Gay Community. He came out to his mom at 24 and never looked back. Before that he described himself as bi-sexual between 22-24 yrs as bisexual because he thought maybe he could go back to "being tragic" No such thing in life's menu.. But found out regardless how he felt about being bi and any other tittle was not honest. He felt offended sometimes when asked by a straight person if he was gay because is not any ones business but we are not there yet and we most identify who we are and to show we are just like another human being. We are all born with different characteristics we can't change. Even the Bible says you could do all the good deeds and and give to then poor, (etc., rumor jump) But you could add a single meter to your stature. Same goes for being gay. You can do what ever and hurt your self but inflicting pain to yourself or others won't change who you are, what you are. And we depend of closeted folks to come out when time is ready for them but if the time is when your family is dead because you are ashamed, then you hurt your community and was not able to help us. Be ashamed if you want to but come out, You are needed! The shame will go away because self love will take over.
Adam says "I went through that like most of us go through. Meanwhile we do work to make easier for you and your kids and family to feel they can do it when they find out they are. "
It is so rewarding to see kids coming out. That's why I know these kids are not going to let gay marriage be found unconstitutional by this MAGA court. Even if they made the mistake of their lives and voted for a TACO that is killing us and our culture of being leaders with compassion for those not as lucky as we are. Changing the nation for not for the better. On the next opportunity to vote you most go Blue all the way so we can get a Congress that can control a runaway Taco. Even if there is a blue you don't like. You can get back at them latter on.
Written on third person by Adam.
Same Sex marriage on The Line
If The Supreme Court Decides Same Sex Marriage is Unconstitutional it means all Marriages, So if You are Married, the legality of it gets dissolved and your papers are just that, papers.
So What are the steps to get the justices to vote one way or the other?
First, There has to be a panel of four justices appointed by the chief judge Roberts to kill it the lawsuit or send it to the full Justice panel.
How does the count goes to recommend the case to the full court?
Thomas and Alito are firmly Anti Gay marriage because they have either said so or implied it.Their votes will be to take the case to the full Court.
So you got Two against us.. So you need two justices that have a sense of social decency, smart politics and have been touch by gay couples in some sort of way. They know what is going on because they read and watch the news like we do. They know there thousands of kids that will end up orphans if a bad decision is made. Those other two need to be fair but to understand the outcry not matching anything in the history of these nation. Gay marriage is not for married gays is for all LGBTQ because is a social network that we are part of. And without it you have the government stating in law what many religious people already believe we are lesser human beings and Americans.
So that's the value of it. I also don't want to hear any gay couple to say what one said and heard my fingers typing for it saying 'He and his husband were married for 9 years so he didn't have to worry about that.' What a stupid, selfish non thinking remark is that? I mean what happens if the Supreme Court decides is unconstitutional? If they are not going to say unconstitutional some are already married if you are married for 10 years -or 1 month. All gay marriages are unconstitutional whether 10 years or 10 minutes. So let's not be stupid. The ammunition that the church and other non free thinking people, depending on what others tell them how to think, have ammunition because the LGBTQ Community has given it to them. We have the good and the bad like any community but let's not have the union formed by stupid thinkers like you have on the red circle. Let's be smarter because that got us where we are. Let's make sure we win this and put cross on the blue burry the ideas against us directed by the courts. We can't help what people do but we can control their opinions and definitely we can change the government thinks by changing those against us. Your first most important issue you have is to be you and your community well being when you vote. Do not vote against your interest and ours. Stop being self centered because it will be coming against you. If that was the thinking there will be no TACOS in the White House. None!
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