Gen.Petraus and Hollie { The REal Reason The LTR became shaky}

Wife of Gen. David Petraeus, Holly Petraeus, 'furious' over Paula Broadwell affair, friend says on 'Good Morning America

This was the headline on today’s NY Daily News.  On the picture below you see the General and his wife Holly on the second picture you will see Jill Kelley with her Husband Scott. Now we have seen enough pictures of Gen.David Petraus, so I wont even show you another one. You can on the picture below see the General  following Holly like a tail on a french poodle. I know that is no surprised to a lot of people that someone of power has someone or someones’ on the side. But some people, mainly republicans seem shocked! It most be a left over from the election shock.  The question I keep hearing is How could he? He had everything ahead of him, may be even running for President. This couple have been married for 38 years. Those 38 years have taken a great toll on her, let me tell you. On one hand you have the Marine Soldier, West point and a General who has had as much influence on the military as probably Eisenhower.  He is fit, strong, smart and a hero. Now he finds himself married to his mom. Even though is been proven that men look for the image of their mom when they pick a life partner on a woman. That does not mean a mom looking 20 years older than them. What am I hinting here? Well, Let cut to the chase. She seems a lot older than him but that is not it. Is that she has not taken care of her body. I had a guy tell me recently that he wanted a guy that would help him be the person that he wants to be in every way. I told him that is better to be the most we can be for a partner. To have yourself ready, that includes your body in a state that says that you care. That way the person that also has worked in keeping healthy and fit for the time he/she connects they at least have the basics in common. It would be hard enough to deal with the other stuff, but with fit bodies ( do not mean mr. muscle guy and miss universe girl) you have that side of your relationship that will induce you to be turn on, not to feel like you could have done better when you meet a friend’s boyfriend.  You will have it at home.  Iam sure that this could not be the only time he cheated. This thing go in half dozens. But this is the only time he got careless and not into learning from the past, which for a general is unforgiveable.  Just a few years ago in the White House that used to employ him there was a President named Bubba that even got impeached over sperm on a dress. I don’t want to ad to what already is been said.  I wanted to hit a different angle of why a successful couple of 38 years has to go through this embarrassing World and may be Galactic episode.  I know that I am over simplifying a bit, but I believe it to make sense.  Instead of her feeling comfortable in her marriage probably thinking it would never end because of the time invested in this union, she failed to see the world as it is (it’s a republican thing). One should never feel comfortable in a relationship, because like any live organism it needs more than food and water. It needs care, it might need not direct sun light or lots of sun light. In other words we have to work at it all the time. Cover our bases that if he is going to be a dog, is not because you look like one.
Adam Gonzalez, Publisher