November 27, 2010

Pucker up


Pucker up.
No, it's not Saturday night and it's not last call at the bar. These kisses are for the greater good.
"Holiday Hugs and Kisses in Arlington" is an event being sponsored by the Arlington Gay and Lesbian Alliance (AGLA), set to take place on December 4 in Arlington, Virginia. It is being held to affirm the community and the region's support for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender rights and equality. There will be art and cultural performances and then a big old row of smooches. The idea is to show healthy expressions of love and affection.
“We expect 300-500 people to attend, including many straight allies,” says the event’s Facebook invitation. “A YouTube video will be produced from live footage recorded at the event… Our video will be premiered at the Artisphere Dome Theatre on December 20 along with an opening reception and will then be posted on YouTube.”
But why pull out your lip gloss? Well, according to the AGLA website, this is why:
Many LGBT people have faced or continue to experience prejudice because of their sexual orientation. LGBT Americans continue to face inequality in daily life, such as the inability to serve openly in the U.S. military, the lack of workplace protections, the inability to be legally married in most states, and the lack of access to federal and state tax benefits that accrue to married persons.  LGBT youth, those perceived to be LGBT, and often any child who is “different” in some way, continue to be harassed and bullied in and out of school.  In recent months, this has led to several widely publicized suicides among LGBT youth and a heightened awareness that young people need support, protection and positive LGBT role models in their lives.
How can one argue with that?
Photo credit: bobster855
Brandon Miller is a freelance writer and editor from Toronto, Ontario.

DADT: Troops Buck Historical Trend by Accepting Gays

Dont Ask Dont Tell
When a majority of troops told the Pentagon this summer they didn't care if gays were allowed to serve openly in the military, it was in sharp contrast to the time when America's fighting forces voiced bitter opposition to accepting racial minorities and women in the services.
The survey, due out Tuesday, is expected to find pockets of resistance among combat troops to ending the ban on gays. But some 70 percent of respondents were expected to say that lifting the ban would have a positive or mixed effect, or none at all, according to officials familiar with the findings.
The study is expected to set the stage for a showdown in the Senate between advocates of repealing the 17-year-old "don't ask, don't tell" law and a small but powerful group of foes in the final days of the lame-duck Congress.
Repeal would mean that, for the first time in U.S. history, gays would be openly accepted by the military and could acknowledge their sexual orientation without fear of being kicked out.
U.S. troops haven't always been so accepting. Troop surveys conducted throughout the 1940s on blacks and Jews, and in the 1970s and 1980s on women, exposed deep rifts within a military that was dominated by white males but becoming increasingly reliant on minorities to help do its job.
In a study from July 1947, four of five enlisted men told the Army that they would oppose blacks serving in their units even if whites and blacks didn't share housing or food facilities.
The same study also revealed a deep resentment toward Jews. Most enlisted men said Jews had profited greatly from the war and many doubted that Jews had suffered under Adolf Hitler.
"Negro outfits should be maintained separately," an Army master sergeant from North Carolina told the Pentagon in 1947. "To do otherwise is to invite trouble and many complications. The equal rights plan should not be forced on the Army as an example to civilians."
Troops also offered dire predictions for what would happen if whites and black units were forced to serve together.
"For sure, all the GIs will quit the Army or buck like hell to get out," a 20-year-old Army private first class told the surveyors. The service members were quoted anonymously in the 1947 study.
Added another 19-year-old soldier: "If the Negro and the whites were mixed, there would be a civil war among the troops. There would be a lot of useless bloodshed if this happens."
But President Harry S. Truman issued a 1948 order on equal treatment of blacks in the services anyway – paving the way for integration during the Korean War. None of these doomsday scenarios came true.
It wasn't until Vietnam, when racial tensions in the civilian world bubbled over into the military, did race riots erupt in all four military branches.
By the 1980s, the military faced the issue of whether to allow women to serve on Navy ships and elsewhere on the battlefield. Troops were generally much more open to serving with women than they had been to serving with African-Americans 40 years prior. Still, many expressed serious concerns that allowing females as crew members would cause problems.
In one 1981 study, lower-ranking enlisted sailors blamed female crew members for a decline in "discipline, leadership and supervision."
As was the case in racial integration, letting women serve aboard ships and, eventually, on combat aircraft, didn't always go smoothly.
In 1990s, the Navy became embroiled in the "Tailhook" scandal in which naval pilots were accused of sexually abusing female officers at a Las Vegas convention. Also, about two dozen female service members were reportedly sexually assaulted during Desert Storm, when U.S. troops helped drive Iraq's Saddam Hussein from Kuwait in 1991.
Women are still barred from many combat roles, including the infantry. But allowing women to join most military units never produced the kind of backlash or decline in military effectiveness that opponents predicted.
By the time President Bill Clinton proposed allowing gays to serve in the military in 1993, gays had been explicitly barred from military service since World War I.
Foes of lifting the ban argued that the military shouldn't be used to expand the rights of gays and that allowing them to serve openly would hurt troop morale and a unit's ability to fight – the same arguments used against women and blacks.
In the end, Congress agreed to let gays serve only if their sexual orientation remained secret.
Today, advocates say they believe history has shown that U.S. troops could handle any disruptions caused by lifting the ban. Opponents of repealing "don't ask, don't tell" say letting gays serve openly in the military is different from earlier struggles over the equality of race and gender. Open gay service, they say, raises unique moral questions, such as whether gay and straight troops should be forced to share living quarters.
Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nev., was expected to try to force a vote in early December, following testimony by Defense Secretary Robert Gates, Joint Chiefs of Staff chairman Adm. Mike Mullen and service leaders before the Senate Armed Services Committee on Thursday and Friday. The House has passed the legislation.
Much of the debate is likely to hinge on the results of the Pentagon study, with many senators saying they wanted to see whether troops would support such a change before voting for repeal. Still, it's far from clear whether the bill would even advance to a floor debate with Democrats and Republicans disagreeing on procedural grounds.
huffingtonpost.com

An American judge has been accused of advocating corrective rape for lesbians.

Lesbians could be 'converted' in the military, Joe Rehyansky argued.
Joe Rehyansky, a part-time magistrate and Vietnam veteran, wrote on conservative news site The Daily Caller that lesbians should be allowed to serve in the military because straight male soldiers could “convert” them.
The Daily Caller swiftly removed some of his remarks but not before they werepicked up by other websites.
Mr Rehyansky, of Hamilton County, Tennessee, argued that men were naturally more promiscuous than women and “it fell to men to swing through the trees and scour the caves in search of as many women as possible to subdue and impregnate – a tough job but someone had to do it”.
Then, he claimed that the “promiscuity” of gay men, coupled with HIV, would have “the potential for disastrous health consequences” if gay men were allowed to serve openly in the military.
“Gays spread disease at a rate out of all proportion to their numbers in our population and should be excluded from the military,” he argued.
He continued: “Shouldn’t the overwhelmingly straight warriors who answer their county’s call be spared the indignity of showering with other men who achieve lascivious enjoyment from the sight of those lithe naked bodies, and who may be tempted to seek more than the view?”
Lesbian military personnel, who Mr Rehyansky praised for their “medical and administrative specialties”, should be allowed to serve because they apparently have low sex drives.
His final argument, which has now been removed by The Daily Caller, was as follows: “My solution would get the distaff part of our homosexual population off our collective ‘Broke Back,’ thus giving straight male GIs a fair shot at converting lesbians and bringing them into the mainstream.”
Mr Rehyansky was accused of advocating corrective rape for lesbians by some commentators.
Blogger Amanda Hess sardonically noted: “Once all the lesbians are easily accessible in one place, an army of straight dudes will turn them all straight, presumably through that time-tested tactic of subduing and impregnating women against their will.”
by Jessica Geen  pinknews.co.uk

John Travolta's Attorney Not Thrilled With Detailed Spa Sex Claims




Just when I was starting to be truly impressed with how John Travolta was handling his gay spa sex scandal (i.e. not responding to it), his attorney Marty Singer, one of Hollywood's most litigious, is on the attack.
While the National Enquirer has been running stories about Travolta's alleged man hunting at spas, the new father hadn't raised much a peep. But when more detailed claims appeared on Gawker, Team Travolta had it: Singer fired off one of his standard cease and desist letters to the website. which calls the claims "blatant defamatory lies" from a "patently unreliable source." Author Robert Randolph — whose book both the Enquirer and Gawker source from — has previously acknowledged he suffered brain damage, which means nothing he says can be true!
So far the Gawker post from gay writer Brian Moylan — which talks about how Travolta likes guys with dark skin and big dongs — is still online, which makes sense, since C&D letters are really just legal bullying. What's interesting, then, is that we haven't heard anything about Travolta's attorney going after the Enquirer for alleging much of the same. Seems the intimate details ("I followed them up there and I went in the next room where I normally got my massages, and I watched them have sex. Full-blown sex. Anal.") proved too much.


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Darren Criss Wants 'Glee's' Chris Colfer To Get A Boyfriend; Not Sure If It's Him




PUBLISHED: NOVEMBER 27, 2010
Darren Criss, who plays out and proud gay student Blaine on the Fox
 musical comedy hit Glee, is rooting for Chris Colfer's character, Kurt
 Hummel, to get a boyfriend, but he's not so sure it should be him.
Kurt fled from his tormentor Dave Karofsky, played by Max Adler, and
 McKinley High after school officials decided against disciplining the
 bully, and towards the Dalton Academy, where he joined Blaine.
 Sisterbut does the performance suggest romance?
In an interview with MTV News, Criss confided that the signals from
 the show's writers on whether Blaine and Kurt will become an item 
remain mixed.
“There are days we're like, 'Oh, yeah, they're definitely going to do
 that,'” he said. “Then there are days when we're like, 'You know 
what, I don't think it really makes sense.'”
Criss added that if the relationship turns romantic, he hopes it's
 “sincere.”
“Whether or not that relationship develops in a romantic way, to
 me, is neither here nor there,” the openly straight actor said. 
“I think if it does happen, I would hope that it's organic and sincere 
and really earned. I trust the writers and creators of the show.
 They write the characters really well, and I don't think it will be
 cheap if it happens. I hope that it's real and right for the story.
 I want to see Kurt get somebody too.”
BY ON TOP MAGAZINE STAFF 

John Berry, the highest-ranking openly gay official, says:“God doesn't make junk”


 


PUBLISHED: NOVEMBER 27, 2010
John Berry, the highest-ranking openly gay official in the Obama 
administration, says “God doesn't make junk” in his It Gets Better video.
The It Gets Better Project encourages troubled gay teens to hang in 
there and not cave in to bullies, because life gets better.
After saying he was fortunate not to be bullied for his sexual 
orientation, Berry, the director of the Office of Personnel, adds that he
 was afraid of who he was, that God wouldn't love him and of his
 parent's rejection.
“Now I know, God does love me. More than I could have ever imagined.
 And God made me just the way I am. And God doesn't make junk.”
“My parents, who I was walling out from my own fear, loved me all the 
more,” he says in his 2-minute-19-second message.
Berry adds that his father, a Marine sergeant who had once asked his
 son to keep his partner at bay, told his dying partner that he loved him 
like a son.
“You can be whatever you want,” he adds. “You can love whomever you 
want. But only if you first love yourself. Trust me, it's worth it, it gets
 better.” (The video is embedded in the right panel of this page.)
Other political leaders who have added their voices to the project include
BY ON TOP MAGAZINE STAFF 

November 26, 2010

Pentagon Warns Congress To Hurry Up On DADT Repeal

Dadt Pentagon
 — The Pentagon's top leaders warned Sunday that if Congress fails to repeal the ban on gays serving openly in the military, the courts may order changes that military leaders consider too fast or poorly thought-out.
The Pentagon is trying to make it easier for the Senate to consider lifting the ban in the current postelection session. Defense Secretary Robert Gates said Sunday he will release a study of the effects of repeal on Nov. 30, a day earlier than planned.
That could allow the Senate Armed Services Committee to hold hearings on the ban the same week.
The report on the impact of lifting the ban is meant as a guide for Congress as it considers what the Pentagon hopes will be a gradual and carefully calibrated change.
The Washington Post has reported that the study concludes the military can lift the ban with only minimal and isolated incidents of risk to the current war efforts.
"The timing and the legislative approach and so on, that is completely up to the Congress. All I know is if this law is going to change, it's better to be changed by legislation rather than have it struck down by the courts," Gates said.
Pentagon Press Secretary Geoff Morrell said later that Gates pushed his staff to deliver the report a day early in order "to ensure members of the Armed Services Committee are able to read and consider the complex, lengthy report before holding hearings with its authors and the Joint Chiefs of Staff."
Gates spoke in Bolivia, where he is attending a regional defense conference.
The chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff said he supports Congress using its lame-duck session to end the ban known as "don't ask, don't tell."
"The courts are very active on this. And my concern is that at some point in time the courts could change this law and in that not give us the right amount of time to implement it," Mullen said on ABC's "This Week."
Mullen said he supports ending the ban because asking people to lie about themselves "goes counter to who we are as an institution."

John McCain's DADT Repeal Concerns Dismissed By Robert Gates




PUBLISHED: NOVEMBER 26, 2010
Secretary of Defense Robert Gates has rejected Arizona Senator John
 McCain's suggestion to put repeal of “Don't Ask, Don't Tell” up for a vote, 
The Hill reported.
McCain, the highest-ranking Republican on the Senate Armed Services Committee, has dismissed an upcoming Pentagon report on how to
 implement repeal, saying that he wanted the Pentagon to study “the
 effects on morale and battle effectiveness” on troops if the ban on gays
 serving openly is lifted. He also said he wanted the opinions of the
 service chiefs, who mostly oppose repeal of the Clinton-era law, to
 weigh more heavily.
“I do not believe that military policy decisions – on this or any other 
subject – should be made through a referendum on Servicemembers,”
 Gates wrote to McCain in a letter dated October 25 but only recently 
made public.
According to unnamed Washington Post sources, the report will show 
that a large majority (more than 70 percent) of troops are okay serving
 alongside openly gay troops.
Gates said he sought out the opinions of members of the military to
 better “understand how a change in DADT policy may impact unit
 cohesion, military readiness and effectiveness, recruiting and
 retention, and family readiness.”
“This will ensure that we can properly advise the President and the 
Congress on the impacts of a repeal and develop an implementation 
plan that appropriately addresses any such impacts,” Gates wrote.
the Senate next week. In an apparent nod to McCain, Committee
 Chairman Carl Levin, a Democrat from Michigan, is also seeking the 
advice of the four service chiefs touted by McCain.
BY CARLOS SANTOSCOY 

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