November 22, 2010

Jonny Moseley To Don Sequins For 'Skating With The Stars' Judge Johnny Weir




PUBLISHED: NOVEMBER 22, 2010
Gold medal-winning Olympic skier Jonny Moseley says he's amping up
 his style for Skating with the Stars judge John G. 'Johnny' Weir.
Moseley is among the twelve inaugural contestants on ABC's Monday 
night premiere of the reality show that pairs celebrities with professionals
 from the world of figure skating.
“You show up for the day and they add sequins to [your costume] so what
“I'm not afraid,” the first Puerto Rican member of the U.S. Ski Team added. “Johnny Weir is a judge and style is going to be important. I've got to push
 the limit a little bit.”
Weir, a 3-time U.S. National Figure Skating champion, will be joined on
 the three-judge panel by former figure skater and television commentator
 Dick Button and choreographer Laurie Ann Gibson during the 2-hour
 show based on the BBC hitDancing on Ice.
BY ON TOP MAGAZINE STAFF 

Gays Attacked in Uganda After Mag Publishes Info


  • A man holds the infamous issue of Rolling Stone that outed Ugandan gays, urging readers to "hang them."
  • Jody May-Chang is an independent journalist dedicated to investigative reporting, commentary and analysis of LGBTQ, politics and human rights issues. She is a frequent contributor toBoise Weekly.
  • It’s 11:00 PM on a late October night in a small village on the outskirts of Kampala. The power is out and the streets are dark when a mob of five men unexpectedly show up at the home of Peter Yiga, a known gay activist.
    Yiga, like many gays and lesbians in Uganda, leads a double life, living a typical heterosexual existence with a woman who is also the mother of his child in order to provide cover from dangers like the one unfolding.
    The men knock on the door, Yiga’s “wife” quietly asks, “Who’s there?”
    They tell her they’re friends of Peter’s and that he’s expecting them for
     a meeting. Just as she cracks the door to get a look, they force it open
     and enter the house.
    A few weeks earlier the Ugandan tabloid Rolling Stone (not associated
     with the American publication) printed the identities and addresses of
     100 known or suspected gays and lesbians under the headline, “Hang
     Them; They Are After Our Kids!!”
    Startled awake, Yiga discovers that
     not only has he never seen these men
     before, but that they’re anything but
    friends. “By the time she called me,
     they were already all over the house
     searching for any gay information…
    They ordered me to sit down and
     started lecturing me.”
    Calling themselves “concerned citizens,
    ” the gang ransacked Yiga’s desk
    confiscating all documents related to
     his LGBT work, and then cleaned out his wallet and stole the family’s money.
    When they demanded that Yiga tell them how many “homos” live in
    Uganda he replied, angrily, “More than you could think, Even your
    wife, plus the maid and all your kids are gay.” One of the men then
     spat on Yiga and shouted, “You are a curse and deserve to die!”
    These “concerned citizens” tried unsuccessfully to get information out
    of Yiga, like who sponsors meetings, who sabotaged the
     Anti-Homosexuality Bill (AHB) and who the prominent gay
     businessmen were.
    Although he was clearly the mob’s target the men also warned his
    wife to stop wearing trousers as it “demoralizes the community” and told
    her they don’t like “mothers like her.” Yiga suspected his family was being
    watched, a fear quickly confirmed when one intruder told him,
     “We know all your movements, if you think we don’t, just try to continue
     your activism.”
    The gang then threatened Yiga that homos better stop “recruiting
     children” or they would “devise another way” to stop them. Thanks
     to Rolling Stone they have a network and know the whereabouts of
     many homosexuals who, they told Yiga, they will be “visiting one-by-
    one [on a] warning mission.” Warned not to go to the police, and that
    they had better cooperate on the next “visit” the gang threatened to
     come back to steal the family’s belongings and smash all the doors
     and windows.
    “[Since that night] I have been scared for my life,” Yiga told RD.
    Yiga’s pastor, the one person he could turn to, was out of the country
     on a five week pilgrimage across the United States to educate Americans
     on the AHB and the American evangelicals who helped provoke this
     witch hunt.
    Rev. Mark Kiyimba is a Unitarian Minister and founder of the Unitarian
     Church in Kampala, one of the few churches in Uganda that welcomes
     LGBT people. During his four day stop in Boise, Idaho, Kiyimba told RD,
     “I think [Yiga] was among the people who were outed in the newspaper.”
    Earlier, just hours after his plane touched down in Boise on Nov. 1st,
     Kiyimba learned thatRolling Stone had just published a second round of
     names under the headline: “More Homos’ Faces Exposed.” Identities were
    published despite a court injunction, filed days earlier, preventing the
     paper from outing gays. Kiyimba said the injunctions are meaningless in
     any case as publishers simply wait for the temporary order to expire.
    Reading parts of the latest round of outings Kiyimba shouts, “They do not
     understand what they are doing! They are ruining the lives of these young
     people. These are just kids, nineteen or twenty years.”
    In Uganda, Kiyimba says, “everybody knows everybody for four square
    miles.” When someone’s name appears in the paper, “life is over.” While
     he was in the U.S. three high school boys in Kiyimba’s church were outed.
    Their parents subsequently kicked them out of their homes and they were
     expelled from school. Two others lost their jobs and the housing their
     employers had provided.
    “I was terrified,” Kiyimba recounted after learning of Yiga’s attack.
     “I know he is in trouble … Peter needs to leave the country.” Visibly upset
     and anxious to return Kiyimba said, “I need to get home… I am responsible
    for his spiritual well-being.”
    As a human rights advocate and pastor to LGBT people Kiyimba could
     be sentenced, under the provisions of the proposed bill, to prison for
     7 years for “Aiding and Abetting Homosexuality,” or up to 3 years for
    each count of “Failure to Disclose” within 24 hours anyone he knows to
    be homosexual.
    “I am very much worried,” said Kiyimba, “I will have to defend myself
    and it will stop me from doing my work.” Kiyimba also runs an orphanage
    for 22 children who are sick with AIDS and a primary school for another
     550 who lost their parents to the disease.
    Although illegal since the British colonization of Uganda, Kiyimba says that
    hostility toward homosexuality skyrocketed after Scott Lively and other
    American evangelicals held an anti-gay conference in Kampala last year.
     “There is no doubt whatsoever,” said Kiyimba, “American evangelicals
     have a very big hand in creating this atmosphere that is out of hand.”
    Lively testified before parliament and told Ugandans, “The gay movement
     is an evil institution”; he equated gays with serial killers and sociopaths
     who, “do mass murder, you know, like the Rwanda stuff.” Still, although
     much of the focus has been on evangelical extremists, conservative Anglican
    influence is just as powerful.
    In C Street: The Fundamentalist Threat to American Democracy, the
     follow up to The Family, Jeff Sharlet notes that “Lively and his friends
     were not so much the cause of the bill as a catalyst for a process that had
     already been set in motion.”*
    According to Sharlet, Family leader Bob Hunter credits himself with helping
     establish US aid to Uganda shortly after President Yoweri Museveni came
     to power. Sharlet uncovered a budget with support staff for The Family’s
    work in Africa designating Sen. James Inhofe (R-OK), as the point man to
    represent the U.S. Congress and The Family.
    “Ugandans are not concerned about the finer points of the American class
     system,” according to Sharlet. “They look at fanatics such as Lively, or
     a politician such as Inhofe, and they see the same thing: a smiling white
     man come to preach moral ‘purity’ as a path out of poverty.”
    Establishing the right connections to American politicians and religious
     leaders is a lucrative business in Uganda. There have been an influx of
     faith-based NGOs and individual American Churches over the years
    that significantly contribute to the billions of dollars that flow into
    Uganda from the U.S.
    “Ugandans,” Sharlet suggests, “are only too happy to return the favor,
    providing for their American allies examples of the policies too extreme
     to be implemented in the United States.” The bill’s author, Member of
    Parliament David Bahati and the Ethics Minister, James Buturo are
     affiliated with The Family.
    Then there’s Rick Warren. The Saddleback megachurch pastor has
    enjoyed close ties in Uganda, a “Purpose Driven Nation,” where The 
    Purpose Driven Life is reported to be almost as popular as the Bible.
    Warren was close to Pastor Martin Ssempa, though he’s since distanced
    himself from the pastor and come out in opposition to the AHB.
    Ssempa, known for staging anti-homosexual marches where people
     chant “Kill the Gays” and “Arrest all Homos,” has shown gay porn
    movies in church to promote the AHB. Rev. Kiyimba believes that
     Ssempa is behind the outings in Rolling Stone, though he has no
    evidence to support this claim.
    Kapya Kaoma, a Zambian Priest and author of a report on American
    evangelicals and anti-gay African clergy, told this reporter back in
     January, after Warren finally repudiated the bill in Dec. 2009:
     “Ugandans,” and Ssempa in particular, “are demanding an apology
    from Warren; the question is why are they demanding an apology?
     Warren misrepresented what he said in Uganda and is very different
     that what he is saying now [in the U.S.]”
    American evangelicals have helped cultivate the homophobic atmosphere
     in Uganda that could easily translate into mass violence. To focus
    only on killing the bill, when the meaning of the word “homosexual”
     has been successfully branded as synonymous to “pedophile” and
    “child rapist” is dangerously shortsighted, like a band-aid for a
     hemorrhaging artery.
    Efforts are currently underway to get Yiga out of the country.
    Leaving his family, especially his child, behind is heart-wrenching
    but staying could have deadly consequences for them all. The sad truth is,
     Yiga’s family is safer with him gone. When and where Yiga will go
     is still uncertain but one thing is for sure: it must be far away.
    Otherwise, Yiga said, “my tormentors can follow me there.” Peter
    hopes that with church influence he can get a visa to come to the
     United States so he can “swiftly leave this deadly place.”

Adam Lambert Reveals Secret To His Success On 'True Hollywood Story'




PUBLISHED: NOVEMBER
 22, 2010


Rocker Adam Lambert reveals the secret to his success on Monday's E! True Hollywood Story.
The one-hour special will take a look at the America Idol season 8 runner-up's meteoric rise to fame, his decision to publicly come out gay, and the secret to his success.
“I'm very fortunate to have parents that recognized that I
 was different and recognized how I was special,” Lambert says on the program. “They didn't ever try to box me it.”
In a tweet from Europe, where Lambert is currently
performing his Glam Nation tour, the Whataya Want
 From Me singer reminded his fans to tune in: “E! THS
 time! Hope you like. :)”
The special will also cover the 28-year-old rock star's
decision to share his personal life with his fans.
“My fans have been really supportive of my choice to
be open and upfront about my sexuality and my lifestyle,” Lambert says. “I have come from the belief that hiding something from people and manipulating what they
 think of you is far more offensive and disrespectful
than just being upfront and being who you are.”
by on Top Mag

Robert Gates Orders Early Release Of DADT Report




PUBLISHED: NOVEMBER 22, 2010

Secretary of Defense Robert Gates has ordered an early release of 
a Pentagon report on repeal of “Don't Ask, Don't Tell,” the 17-year-
old law that bans gay and bisexual troops from serving openly.
Officials announced they'll release the long-awaited report on
 November 30, one day earlier than planned.
The Senate's Democratic leadership has pledged to vote on a defense
 bill that includes language that would repeal the law that has ended
 the military careers of over 13,000 service members after the 
Thanksgiving break.
Senators consider the report's findings crucial and had urged Gates 
for an early release so that the Senate Armed Services Committee
 could hold hearings on it prior to a floor vote.
“Secretary Gates is pushing all involved in the Comprehensive
 Review Working Group's report to have it ready for public release on 
Nov. 30 in order to accommodate the desire of the Senate Armed
 Services Committee to hold hearings as soon as possible,” 
Pentagon Press Secretary Geoff Morrell said in a statement.
The development should be good news to beleaguered repeal
 backers who are racing to end the law before Republicans takeover
 the House and increase their numbers in the Senate in January. 
Senate Republicans, led by Arizona Senator John McCain, blocked
troops, according to Washington Postsources.
About 40 percent of Marines object to repeal and Marine Corps
 leaders have publicly supported the policy. On Sunday, Joint Chiefs
BY CARLOS SANTOSCOY 

California Parents to Schools: Don't Tell Our Children to Stop Bullying Gays




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In a perfect world, this would only be a story worthy of The Onion. But alas, a group of California parents are seriously trying to push the Vallejo City Unified School District to drop an anti-bullying program that fosters respect for all students. Why? Because the program addresses anti-gay bullying, and says that LGBT youth shouldn't be beat up or harassed in schools.
For a small yet vocal group of parents, that comes too close to endorsing homosexuality. So they want the bullying program dropped, or at least given permission to opt their children out of the curriculum.
Huh, what good is an anti-bullying program if students aren't required to go through it? And do parents really need to give permission for their children to learn values like respect and nonviolence?
That's the question that one family in the school district is asking. That would be the family of Rochelle Hamilton, who filed a lawsuit against the school district years ago for ignoring the anti-gay harassment that Hamilton, an openly lesbian student, suffered while going to class. The result of that lawsuit was that the Vallejo Unified City School District would enact comprehensive anti-bullying programs, including a series of short films known under the banner of "Respect for All."
It's these films that are drawing the ire of social conservatives now, because they touch on showing respect for people regardless of their sexual orientation. That ire has Rochelle Hamilton totally perplexed,according to the Contra Costa Times.
"It's a video. It's about making the world better, so why would you get mad? It's not like it's something that's harmful or dangerous; everybody's just trying to be happy. Really, that's all it is," Hamilton said.
That's also a point that was made particularly well by our own Cristian Asher a couple weeks ago, when he wrote that schools are the perfect venue to address bullying. Some parents may not approve of homosexuality, and that's their right. But in a civilized (not to mention secular) society, schools have the responsibility of making sure all students are safe, regardless of their sexual orientation.
"The truth is, anti-bullying programs like this one exemplify the kind of social training that schools must do every single day, along with all that reading, writing, and 'rithmatic. Schools are social incubators, and to fail in this area would handicap their graduates just as much as illiteracy does," Asher wrote. "Inclusion of LGBT students as part of such an anti-bullying curriculum also exemplifies the school's responsibility, because the fact is that LGBT people do exist in our world, even in Vallejo, and even around [parents] who want nothing to do with them. For a school district not to address this very current and devastating issue of how to treat other people, including people of minority gender identities, would be a complete abdication of its duty to its students."
The scary part in all of this is that these parents are looking to step up the pressure on Vallejo to drop the program, or let them opt their children out. The next school board meeting is slated for December 8, and it's possible this issue could come up.
 Photo credit: iboy_daniel

How the Chilean Miners are Promoting a Homophobic Campaign from Chile's Government


Darn those good intentions, always paving the road to hell. Case in point, a campaign from the Chilean government to address violence against women. On its surface, it sounds pretty noble. After all, it's in everyone's best interests to condemn, address and eliminate gender-based violence.
But Chile's campaign sadly takes a turn for the homophobic. And it all has to do with the tagline for the campaign. Are you ready? Here's the English version:
"Faggot is a man who beats a woman."
And you know those 33 Chilean miners who captured the hearts of everyone around the world, and are now touring countries receiving awards and plaudits for their bravery? They're all wearing T-shirts that say "Faggot is a man who beats a woman," courtesy of Chile's Minister of the National Women's Service, Carol Schmidt Zaldivar. That's quite the message for the global community to feast their eyes upon.
The Minister, for her part, said that she's thrilled to have the backing of the miners, and hopes that the campaign can truly make a dent in preventing gender-based violence. "[This campaign is] an example of unity and consensus that we as a country want to eradicate domestic violence in Chilean homes," she said.
But by calling men who perpetrate acts of violence against women "Faggots," isn't this campaign just replacing one act of violence with another? Sure seems so, and that's the message coming from a number of LGBT groups in the country who are urging the Chilean government to drop the campaign.
The group Soy Hombre Soy Mujer released a press release late last week, saying that this campaign is only going to increase homophobia and anti-gay sentiment in Chile, where statistics show a nearly 600% increase in recent years of violence toward the LGBT community.
"In Chile, homophobia continues to be the result of ignorance and this national campaign serves to worsen the lack of information, discrimination and violence against LGBTs," Soy Hombre Soy Mujer said. The group went on to note that the Spanish word being used in the campaign, “maricón,” has been used widely to discriminate against LGBT people throughout Latin America.
In perhaps the most ironic twist to this story, the word “maricón” refers to how reprehensible it is for men to act like women, which is why many say the English equivalent of the word is "faggot."
So let's get this straight (pun intended). We have a campaign that hopes to root out violence against women, and to do so they label men who perpetrate violence against women "faggots," or men who act too much like women.
Sheesh, this campaign's not only homophobic, but it also seems a bit sexist, too.
Soy Hombre Soy Mujer is urging the Minister of National Women's Service to drop this campaign, and instead retool their message to combat gender-based violence without resorting to homophobia. Join their call here, and help turn these misguided good intentions into a truly worthwhile campaign to eradicate violence against women.
Photo credit: Soy Hombre Soy Mujer
Michael Jones is a Change.org Editor. He has worked in the field of human rights communications for a decade, most recently for Harvard Law School.

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