39% of those polled in Time magazine study say marriage is obsolete

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Is marriage becoming obsolete in America?

Nearly one in three American children is living with a parent who is divorced, separated or never-married. More people now believe that wedding bells aren't needed to have a family.

One American family tradition isn't changing though. About nine in 10 Americans say they will share a traditional Thanksgiving holiday meal next week with family, sitting at a table with 12 people on average. About one-quarter of those meeals will be shared with 20 or more family members.

More than a third of Americans believe marriage is growing obsolete. Even so, two unmarried partners who live together with children - like famously unwed Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie - are not counted by the US census as a single 'family'

But a study by the Pew Research Center, in association with Time Magazine, highlights rapidly changing notions of family in America. 

The Census Bureau, too, is planning to incorporate broader definitions of family when measuring poverty, a shift caused partly by recent jumps in unmarried couples living together.

About 29 per  cent of children under 18 now live with a parent or parents who are unwed or no longer married, a fivefold increase from 1960, according to the Pew report. 

15 percent have parents who are divorced or separated and 14 per  cent who were never married. Within those two groups, a sizable chunk - 6 per cent - have parents who are live-in couples who opted to raise kids together without getting married.

Indeed, about 39 per cent of Americans said marriage was becoming obsolete. And that sentiment follows U.S. census data released in September that showed marriages hit an all-time low of 52 per cent for adults 18 and over.

Next week's Thanksgiving holiday will be celebrated by 9 out of 10 Americans who will sit down for dinner with family. But, the definition of family is changing in America, as single parents and gay and unwed partners grow

In 1978, just 28 per cent believed marriage was becoming obsolete.

When asked what constitutes a family, the vast majority of Americans agree that a married couple, with or without children, fits that description. But four of five surveyed pointed also to an unmarried, opposite-sex couple with children or a single parent. 

Three of five people said a same-sex couple with children was a family.

'Marriage is still very important in this country, but it doesn't dominate family life like it used to,' said Andrew Cherlin, a professor of sociology and public policy at Johns Hopkins University. 

'Now there are several ways to have a successful family life, and more people accept them.'

The changing views of family are being driven largely by young adults 18-29, who are more likely than older generations to have an unmarried or divorced parent or have friends who do.

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14 percent of children under 18 in America live with single parents who were never married, like Sarah Palin's daughter Bristol and grandson Tripp

Young adults also tend to have more liberal attitudes when it comes to spousal roles and living together before marriage, the survey found.

But economic factors, too, are playing a role. The Census Bureau recently reported that opposite-sex unmarried couples living together jumped 13 per cent this year to 7.5 million. 

It was a sharp one-year increase that analysts largely attributed to people unwilling to make long-term marriage commitments in the face of persistent unemployment.

Beginning next year, the Census Bureau will publish new, supplemental poverty figures that move away from the traditional concept of family as a husband and wife with two children. 

It will broaden the definition to include unmarried couples, such as same-sex partners, as well as foster children who are not related by blood or adoption.

Marriage is still important to most Americans, but it doesn't dominate family life like it did in the 1950s

Officials say such a move will reduce the number of families and children who are considered poor based on the new supplemental measure, which will be used as a guide for federal and state agencies to set anti-poverty policies.

That's because two unmarried partners who live together with children and work are currently not counted by census as a single 'family' with higher pooled incomes, but are officially defined as two separate units - one being a single parent and child, the other a single person - who aren't sharing household resources.

'People are rethinking what family means,' Cherlin said. 'Given the growth, I think we need to accept cohabitation relationships as a basis for some of the fringe benefits offered to families, such as health insurance.'

Still, the study indicates that marriage isn't going to disappear anytime soon. Despite a growing view that marriage may not be necessary, 67 percent of Americans were upbeat about the future of marriage and family. 

That's higher than their optimism for the nation's educational system (50 percent), economy (46 percent) or its morals and ethics (41 percent).

And about half of all currently unmarried adults, 46 percent, say they want to get married. Among those unmarried who are living with a partner, the share rises to 64 percent.

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